I will tell you, this all started for me when I had a nightmare. Our boys were married and at our house with their new wives. As they were getting ready to leave, I asked the wives to go to the basement and get the 25 neatly labeled storage bins of their now husbands STUFF. I woke up in a sweat after both of their wives said, "We do not have room for THAT." Point- I was saving way too much. The first thing I purged was the STUFF from school. Ben and Gabe NOW each have one crate with a folder for every year of school. Now when they leave home, they can take their 1 crate not 25 boxes. I had no problem throwing away several bags of STUFF- I actually had great joy while throwing away anything that contained glitter. My boys were not involved in this process, because to them everything is special. I know logically what will matter to them in 20 years-
Monday, March 14, 2011
40 Bags/40 Days
I will tell you, this all started for me when I had a nightmare. Our boys were married and at our house with their new wives. As they were getting ready to leave, I asked the wives to go to the basement and get the 25 neatly labeled storage bins of their now husbands STUFF. I woke up in a sweat after both of their wives said, "We do not have room for THAT." Point- I was saving way too much. The first thing I purged was the STUFF from school. Ben and Gabe NOW each have one crate with a folder for every year of school. Now when they leave home, they can take their 1 crate not 25 boxes. I had no problem throwing away several bags of STUFF- I actually had great joy while throwing away anything that contained glitter. My boys were not involved in this process, because to them everything is special. I know logically what will matter to them in 20 years-
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